Two "One Years" on one day...
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| Posted: Jan 26, 2008 7:52 p.m. - Subject: Two "One Years" on one day... |
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Well tomorrow, January 27, 2008 will be my son will be one year old. It will also be one year after my gf died while having our son. I’ve been thinking about her alot. I remember all the horrible things I thought about doing after she died. I’ve been trying so hard to try and get over this but.....I just can’t. I dont think I will ever be able to like anyone the same way I liked her. I guess you could call it love. But we were only 15. And what do 15 year olds know about love right? Zeke (my son) is the only think I have left of her. My parents say it would be best to give him up for adoption...but its like I have to have him. I know that the only way to truly get over her is to do it.......but a small part of me doesnt want me to forget.
I really dont know what to do. All my family and friends look at me like I’m going to kill myself or something. Wel I’m not dumb. That would hurt Zeke more than help him. Every time I look at him I see her...She was so beautiful....I miss her alot
I really don’t know why I’m posting this here. I guess I just need to spill it out somewhere...
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| Posted: Jan 26, 2008 8:03 p.m. - Subject: |
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You had a child at the age of 15!
And this time, you didn’t ruin 3 lives (yours, the babie’s, and hers), but because of you she died! You killed a female by accident, shame on you. That female would have pleasured many men (considering that she put out to you), and now you have killed her.
Your kid will just be a waste of air now. He wont be properly raised, and he will probably do the same. Just end your life and put the kid for adoption. That way everybody wins.
No offense though, i hope i didn’t make you reconsider life and/or made you realize what an idiot you are.
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| Posted: Jan 26, 2008 8:03 p.m. - Subject: |
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You are a terrible troll.
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| Posted: Jan 26, 2008 8:13 p.m. - Subject: |
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I’m not trying to be a troll.
And Garlock. Fuck you. Do you know how many women die each year because of giving birth? Not many which means it was a freak accident. Yes maybe I have ruin my kids life. But I’m dead yet. I am going to try and make my kids life as good as i can help it. Yes I know its going to be hard with what I’ve done. But I’m still going to try. And dont you ever say anything about my son being a waste of air again. You can go ahead and make fun of me all you want but dont you ever fucking a word about him. This is not his fault. so pleasejust dont say another fucking word about him
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| Posted: Jan 26, 2008 8:13 p.m. - Subject: |
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i’m NOT* dead yet
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| Posted: Jan 26, 2008 8:30 p.m. - Subject: |
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* Still wondering why someone decides to pour their heart out on a forum filled with asshats, dicks, 12 year olds, and the like, while still not being a troll. *
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| Posted: Jan 26, 2008 11:08 p.m. - Subject: |
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So on the day your son was born and your girlfriend died you googled for some hilarious pranks and set yourself up an account here?
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| Posted: Jan 26, 2008 11:09 p.m. - Subject: |
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oops lol nvm wrong topic
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| Posted: Jan 27, 2008 5:00 p.m. - Subject: |
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Quote: And Garlock. Fuck you. Do you know how many women die each year because of giving birth? Not many which means I have epically phailed
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[quote]Yes maybe I have ruin my kids life.
Ever heard of the pill, condoms, or abortion? Spend a few bucks on that shit and save your kid the suffering of having to live with an idiot father who fucked a slut and was too stupid to know when to take it out.
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| Posted: Jan 27, 2008 5:01 p.m. - Subject: |
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Quote: And Garlock. Fuck you. Do you know how many women die each year because of giving birth? Not many which means I have epically phailed at life.
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Quote: Yes maybe I have ruin my kids life.
Ever heard of the pill, condoms, or abortion? Spend a few bucks on that shit and save your kid the suffering of having to live with an idiot father who fucked a slut and was too stupid to know when to take it out.
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| Posted: Jan 27, 2008 6:12 p.m. - Subject: |
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Garlock for your info we did use a condem and i nor did my gf believe in the use of abortion. and Alle your right. I probly shouldnt have put this on RE. Buts its ok. Today I have relized that my son does need me. Im not giving him up.
oh and Garlock I’m sorry you have to try and "fix" my words to flame me. i know what i did ruined my life. but this hasnt ruined my sons life yet. he will grow up to be a better man than you ever will. I’ll teach him to respect or at the very least honor a person whose having an emotional meltdown. Not to "flame" or mock him. And im not gonna give you the satisfaction of me blocking you. Because I think people or block others because of fights are cowards. and i am no coward. I do not take shots at 1 year old boys who cant stand up for himself. nor do I take a shot a someone who’s world pretty much came to an end one year ago.
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| Posted: Jan 27, 2008 7:07 p.m. - Subject: |
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Quote: we did use a condem
Use a condom next time.
Quote: and i nor did my gf believe in the use of abortion.
Well that was pretty dumb. She could have saved her life by ending one that hadn’t even begun.
Quote: and Alle your right.
He always is.
Quote: i know what i did ruined my life.
I’m the same age as you are, I don’t have a fucked up life, and I could have noticed you lack of grammar when I was in fourth grade.
Quote: but this hasnt ruined my sons life yet.
Just wait for when you have to pay for your college and his school.
Quote: he will grow up to be a better man than you ever will.
No he wont. He will probably do the same as you did, or have problems because he was born out of an underage mother. And also: Getting raised in a good family with parents that earn a decent income definitely tops getting raised by a noob 15 year old.
Quote: I’ll teach him to respect or at the very least honor a person whose having an emotional meltdown. Not to "flame" or mock him.
People with "emotional breakdowns" deserve no honor. They should go to shrinks and whatnot. And I don’t mock people with problems. But yours was just too dumb to pass.
Quote: And im not gonna give you the satisfaction of me blocking you.
You’re giving me the satisfaction of helping me erect my e-penis by arguing with me.
Quote: Because I think people or block others because of fights are cowards.
Go tell that to your son so he can become president.
Quote: I do not take shots at 1 year old boys who cant stand up for himself.
Me neither, I’m taking shots at the 15 year old father.
Quote: nor do I take a shot a someone who’s world pretty much came to an end one year ago.
See, that’s what my posts are about, you ruining your life, the babie’s, and ending hers. Not to mention the messing up the girls parents lives by having them know that her daughter’s life ended or being a slut.
Since I don’t have more text to quote from you, I’ll just have a wild guess and tell you that you’re probably from one of those southern states of USA where they all talk like Earl. How wrong am I?
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| Posted: Jan 27, 2008 7:12 p.m. - Subject: |
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Quote: Garlock for your info we did use a condem and i nor did my gf believe in the use of abortion.
You obviously didn’t use condoms enough and/or properly.
And YOU WERE BOTH 15. You don’t get to make moral stands against abortion at that age. Fucking idiot.
It’s people like YOU that made "statutory rape" a jailable offence. Why? BECAUSE PEOPLE DON’T WANT THEIR 15 YEAR OLD DAUGHTERS DYING FROM CHILD BIRTH.
Fuck you. I hope your son turns out to be a gang member or some shit.
P.s haha ur gf dieded lolz.
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| Posted: Jan 27, 2008 7:16 p.m. - Subject: |
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Honestly this sounds like BS, and if you rly did have a son, then you dont sound 15...
If its true though then sorry man, your a dipshit and you deserve what you got (not to be mean)
Put the baby up for adoption. Right now if he gets adopted then he wont rember you, and will grow up a normal life. Or you could keep the baby and be poor for the rest of your life, because half of your time will have to be devoted to taking care of the baby, and the other half will be on getting money. Thats fucking hard ot do, and once you hit 18 its gonna be even harder. With a 3 year old kid, and you being only 18, nothing is going to be good for either of you. The kid will end up being poor and be alienated for being poor, while you will be poor as well.
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| Posted: Jan 27, 2008 7:52 p.m. - Subject: |
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Quote: I hope your son turns out to be a gang member or some shit.
Most gangs cause harm to society. Dress him like a puppy and take it to the pound, where he will be put to sleep.
Quote: If its true though then sorry man, your a dipshit and you deserve what you got (not to be mean)
Put the baby up for adoption. Right now if he gets adopted then he wont rember you, and will grow up a normal life. Or you could keep the baby and be poor for the rest of your life, because half of your time will have to be devoted to taking care of the baby, and the other half will be on getting money. Thats fucking hard ot do, and once you hit 18 its gonna be even harder. With a 3 year old kid, and you being only 18, nothing is going to be good for either of you. The kid will end up being poor and be alienated for being poor, while you will be poor as well.
He won’t listen to us. He is just one of those guys who make you think "why the fuck are they still alive?" when you see them.
I wont get into your lack of morality (in a non-religious kind of way) because you will just answer back with an idiot reply saying how you chose to live like this and that you will raise him very good and shit.
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| Posted: Jan 27, 2008 9:13 p.m. - Subject: |
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Quote: Most gangs cause harm to society. Dress him like a puppy and take it to the pound, where he will be put to sleep.
I really LOL’ed at that one. My God that’s funny.
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| Posted: Jan 30, 2008 5:50 p.m. - Subject: |
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Well, let me tell you one thing, young man.
Probably the best thing you have done in this situation is decide that you would dedicate yourself to the child. The child could have had a really crappy life if you had just sort of ditched it.
Don’t lose your resolve to care for the child. Your life may be strongly affected by this, but don’t make it any harder on the child. Trust me, things will be far better if you just accept the child (which you seem to be doing). I know it’s hard for someone your age, that is an adult thing...but you have to do it now. The worst thing you can do right now is "give up" on the baby.
Remember, don’t lose your will to give everything to that child, it’s absolutely necessary. Be strong, and keep your resolve. You are doing what nature commands you to do, now go raise a healthy baby.
Good luck.
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| Posted: Feb 03, 2008 2:44 p.m. - Subject: |
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Quote: Well, let me tell you one thing, young man.
Probably the best thing you have done in this situation is decide that you would dedicate yourself to the child. The child could have had a really crappy life if you had just sort of ditched it.
Don’t lose your resolve to care for the child. Your life may be strongly affected by this, but don’t make it any harder on the child. Trust me, things will be far better if you just accept the child (which you seem to be doing). I know it’s hard for someone your age, that is an adult thing...but you have to do it now. The worst thing you can do right now is "give up" on the baby.
Remember, don’t lose your will to give everything to that child, it’s absolutely necessary. Be strong, and keep your resolve. You are doing what nature commands you to do, now go raise a healthy baby.
Good luck.
Dude w/e your parents say don’t give up the baby. Your really making the right choice by keeping him. I think you will eventually move on, but you and that child have a bond already, you both lost someone that day, but putting a baby up for adoption is really a thing that can ruin that kid’s life. You’re really making the right choice by keeping it.
Good Luck man.
P.s. Tell your baby happy b-day from The Ingramite
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| Posted: Feb 03, 2008 3:51 p.m. - Subject: |
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Exactly, what The_Ingramite said. Which would you rather be, an accident, or adopted?
I’d sure as hell would rather be an accident. You know why? Because if you are adopted it means not only were you an accident, but your parent(s) were too weak willed, useless assholes to give a damn about you.
KEEP THE BABY! Whatever you do!
In twenty years you will be so glad you did. You are just making it complete hell for the kid by giving it away.
And yes, I feel very strongly about these kinds of subjects..
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| Posted: Feb 06, 2008 8:48 a.m. - Subject: |
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Hey if i can quote Joe Dirt here, "Just keep on keepin’ on." And dont listen to assholes like Garlock. You’re doing the right thing by keeping the child.
I’m your age, and i cant imagine if this happened to me. If you didn’t say you were only 15, I would have thought you to be an adult, an adult making an adult decision.
I agree, you probably fucked up your life, but the worst thing you can do is feel so sorry for yourself that you forget the real reason you keep on going every day. Its not going to be easy, but (using yet another cliche) nobody said it was gonna be.
And on down the road, if you dedicate your life to this kid, you WILL make his life better. And your life will also get better. Not in a superficial or monetary way, but you will know the real reason you were put on this earth.
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