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| Posted: Sep 24, 2007 7:20 p.m. - Subject: Used. |
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Ive got a friend, and he is being used, REALLY bad.
Ok, heres a little BG info. He is my age, and he hasnt had a "serious" girlfriend before. There was this girl at the dillons (kroger) that he works at. They started to go out. Then I found out she was 19. I thought that was a little weird, but, hey, whatever. Now I figured out she has a kid...who is 3 years old... Apparently, she asked him to be the kids father, and word on the street is, he said yes. I think she is just using him to buy things for her kid. She needs the extra income, and he is a pawn in her sick game.
Me and some of the guys have tried to talk to him about this, and he just wont listen.
Ive seen the EXACT same thing on divorce court.
What can I do to get him to see what shes doing to him?
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| Posted: Sep 26, 2007 5:38 p.m. - Subject: |
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Well, wait until he starts purchasing those things for her. Then from that, you can show him he’s been wasting his money away on things for her kid, and he’s not spending it well.
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| Posted: Sep 28, 2007 7:02 p.m. - Subject: |
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first of all, how long have they been going out?
Secondly, when they are together do they SEEM happy?
Does it look like its a healthy relationship?
if they havnt been going out more then a few monthes then she has no right to ask something like that of him.
Shes ether stupid or a gold digger. ORR they actually REALLY love each other.
Ether way your friend is probably way to young to understand what he would be actually taking on, should he decide that he wants to take the place of this kids real dad.
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| Posted: Sep 28, 2007 7:25 p.m. - Subject: |
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Theyve been at it for 2 months, and already have a cellphone plan on the same bill. He pays most of it, of course, which is what REALLY sets me off.
I havent seen them together alot, but Ive got this gut feeling shes going to run him dry.
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| Posted: Sep 28, 2007 8:21 p.m. - Subject: |
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Well hopefully your friend has a limit to how far he will go for this chick.
all i can say is just catch him at a good time and just TRY to get him to listen to what your saying.
dont be all fucking accusatory n shit. that NEVER helps.
just say "hey look, we’re all alittle concerned about you, because you seem to be attaching yourself to this girl awfully fast. dont you think your taking things alittle fast?"
just shit like that .
and maybe tell him to be careful because not all girls have the best intentions when it comes to guys.
ESPECIALLY, if this chick has already had a KID with another guy and THAT guy ran off. You can tell just by THAT, that she has a bitter taste in her mouth about men.
So your friend needs to be extra careful that shes not trying to use the kid as a pawn to get things out of him.
All you can do its try to talk to him and if he respects you he will listen and remember it. Tell his other friends to talk to him too about it, like away from everyone else.
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| Posted: Sep 30, 2007 7:15 p.m. - Subject: |
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I’d see how she acts around him first. If she looks interested... i dunno. She could be playing.
Ask around to see whos doin’ what.
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| Posted: Dec 08, 2007 7:09 a.m. - Subject: |
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k alle i think u shuld tell him that its just not worth it for his piont on life
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| Posted: Dec 11, 2007 3:20 p.m. - Subject: |
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stop bumping old topics please.
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| Posted: Dec 28, 2007 3:44 p.m. - Subject: |
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stay out of his life peroid
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| Posted: Dec 28, 2007 4:54 p.m. - Subject: |
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look at the fucking date of the last post before you make a post... comeback kid is a fucking retard
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