What do I do?
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| Posted: Nov 07, 2006 12:34 p.m. - Subject: What do I do? |
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I have been kind of a dickhead lately. Everything pisses me off somehow, I accidently went off on my gf (didn’t hit her, just kinda snapped back at her then yelled a little bit when she asked what the fuck was my problem) and she almost broke up with me. I need help to figure out a way to get rid of me being mad all the time. I think it has something to do with winter coming ( I hate winter, no skating). Cause it happens about every year. Please, help me before I end up losing her.
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| Posted: Nov 07, 2006 1:55 p.m. - Subject: |
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Well, you’ve got a good chance if you talk.
Talk about your problems, and talk about it with HER. Tell her you don’t want to lose her, and that you have some problem you don’t know anything about (like why you act like you have lately), and ask her to try to pull through with you. Ask her to be there for you, because now you need someone, especially her, it seems, more than ever.
About actually helping your anger. Well, it seems like stress. Because of no skating? Well, find something else to do. Hang out with your girlfriend more, practice your guitar - do something creative, maybe even write a song. Take your mind of all of this stress and help yourself.
Good luck, man.
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| Posted: Nov 09, 2006 4:02 a.m. - Subject: |
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i second the stress thing.
People can do some pretty crazy stuff when they are really stressed.
Just try to relax, and reflect on what could be causing you to stress this badly.
once you figured it out, talk to someone about it.
if you trust your gf, talk to her about if AFTER you say your sorry for yelling at her.
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| Posted: Nov 11, 2006 8:00 a.m. - Subject: |
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Update:
Thanks to Tyrant’s help everything with her is worked out. She understands. Gold star for Tyrant!
Anger part is still under work. It’s not as bad now though. Slowly progressing.
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| Posted: Nov 11, 2006 3:01 p.m. - Subject: |
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I get a gold star?
*Beams*
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| Posted: Nov 25, 2006 2:23 a.m. - Subject: |
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I think you should go to an anger managment group. seems like you are having trouble just being around anyone, and don’t use that ole excuse, it is winter. you still have ice skating .
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| Posted: Nov 25, 2006 2:25 a.m. - Subject: |
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yea could be stress , but still you need to find out what is stressing you. And learn to deal with it and your anger.
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| Posted: Nov 25, 2006 4:29 p.m. - Subject: |
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I have found that it is impossible for me to be an asshole when i am grateful. When i start feeling like lashing out because the world isn’t going my way...i try to think of the things are going right....the things i have.....and the problems i don’t have....i become grateful and somehow, the asshole leaves......
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| Posted: Nov 26, 2006 7:06 a.m. - Subject: |
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Muse you have a good way of thinking , i have noticed that on several of these subject in here, stay possitive dude, your doing a good job.
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| Posted: Dec 02, 2006 1:09 a.m. - Subject: |
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thanks......
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