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Posted: Jan 01, 2007 3:16 p.m. - Subject: Need help :0
Well i broke up with this girl Nicole about 2 months ago cus her parents and sister wouldnt let me see or talk to her.No after I broke up,I got another girlfriend the next hour ^_^,jenn,who might move in June.But I still sort of Like Nicole,but I knew that If i asked her out I could never see her.So I stayed with jenn cus I care about her alot,and I find out Nicole still likes me.But after a while,she starts to like my friend.And my friend like her back.So my friend decided to ask her out,and she said Yes.Now Im really pissed off cus the kid is my friend,But I still care about Nicole AND Jenn.What the fuck do I do?
Do I ask Nicole,who i cant see ever again,out?
Do I stay with Jenn,a girl I care alot aboutkbut is moving in June?
Do I get pissed at the kid for going after my ex?
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Posted: Jan 01, 2007 10:13 p.m. - Subject:
if you can’t ever see her again, theres really no point in asking, isthere? either way, i reccomend you distance yourself from the asshole that asked out your ex.
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Posted: Jan 02, 2007 1:05 a.m. - Subject:
yea why ask Nicole if you can’t see her, and i hope the only reason why you like this Jenn is not cause she thinking of moving in. The kid , well i would wonder about how good of a friend he really is, since he knows u still care for Nicole.
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Posted: Jan 06, 2007 2:49 p.m. - Subject:
1) you could have a talk with her. but if she’s attached, she’s most likely moved on, or is trying to. its not very clear about whether or not she has feelings for you now.
2) it depends on how far away she is moving and the likelyhood of seeing her again. it doesnt sound like you are completely serious about either one of them; if you still like nicole, then its not very fair to june anyways that you are constantly thinking about nicole.
3) if it was a very close, or even a semi-close friend and he didnt at least talk to you first, then yes. but you ahve to keep in mind that in not fighting for her, you’ve pretty much basically given up on her. if he’s an acquaintance, then, as far as im concerned, he has full rights to ask her out, especially if you are going out with another girl.
basically, you have to choose one or the other-- if you cant stop thinking about nicole, then you need to hold off with jen until youre ready to give her your full attention, because right now its not very respectful towards her. and if youre so hung on nicole, you need to talk with her, because you will never feel comfortable in another relationship until you know for sure whether or not you guys will go out again.
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Posted: Apr 11, 2007 3:48 p.m. - Subject:
When the girl you are going out with at the moment(jenn, i believe) is about to move, start to pull away from her weeks before she moves, so you won’t feel as hurt when she does move.
