Girl trouble
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Power Egg
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| Posted: Jan 20, 2008 5:28 a.m. - Subject: Girl trouble |
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Ok, so around the start of 2007, I met this girl. We talked a bit, but I never really talked to her until around 1-2 months ago. Turns out we get on great, have lots in common, etc. Now I’m pretty sure I love her. I know you all will probably call BS, but I’m serious. I have never felt this way about a girl before.
One problem, she has a boyfriend. I’ve never really talked to him, he seems ok though. Anyway, all of this girls friends have been telling her that I’m better than him, and that she should be with me instead. But she says she is in love with him. When she said that to me, it broke my heart.
The other day I told her I loved her. I reailse that was probably a mistake, but I felt like I would explode If I didn’t tell her. So basically, I really want to be with this girl, but she has a boyfriend. Since she told me she loves him, all I have been is sad, and I constantly feel like crying.
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| Posted: Jan 22, 2008 1:17 a.m. - Subject: |
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Thanks for the help guys.
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Power Egg
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| Posted: Jan 22, 2008 5:55 a.m. - Subject: |
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Alright well, your not going to get anywhere crying.
If shes in love with that guy then thats the reality shes stuck in.
i object is to pull to wool off her eyes and get him to see that hes worthless.
Im not sure what kind of help your asking for here. If its revenge, i got that covered just let me know.
if your asking for emotional support im not sure what to tell you other then YEAH, you SHOULDNT have told that girl you loved her, you came on to strong and you might have just scared her away.
The only other thing that i can think of now is to just keep being nice, keep being there for her and as soon as she gets in a fight with him, she’ll come running for support.
If you and her (and the bf) are real young (im gonna say until 16 or 17) then all it should take is one nice big fight to shake things up a bit.
She just needs to bring her head down out of the clouds for a little bit. When she does, talk to her about him, try to gage what her feelings were about the fight and where she stands emotionally about her relationship with that guy.
THEN get back to me.
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| Posted: Jan 22, 2008 6:26 a.m. - Subject: |
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Well about telling her I love her; I was talking to her best friend, and she said that I haven’t scared her off or screwed anything up. It may also be worth mentioning that the girl I’m in love with trusts me deeply, and we have a very close friendship.
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Power Egg
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| Posted: Jan 22, 2008 7:00 p.m. - Subject: |
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well then your already probably first on the list of guys she’ll go for if she brakes up with dumbass.
Just give it some time, and like i said just be there to talk with her every time something bad happens between her and the bf.
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| Posted: Jan 22, 2008 7:18 p.m. - Subject: |
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Yeah I always talk to her about stuff thats upsetting her.
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| Posted: Jan 23, 2008 4:22 p.m. - Subject: |
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well thats good keep it up.
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