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| Posted: Feb 01, 2008 9:20 a.m. - Subject: My girlfriend |
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Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 7 months. Her and her family have been having some serious problems, like custody issues and stuff like that. She just got out of a place that was supposed to help her out with the problems she’s been having with family and other things. I actually just drove 2 hours yesterday to go pick her up from where she was staying.
Well last night we were talking and she said we shouldn’t ’go out’ right now because having a boyfriend AND the family issues aren’t really making things easy right now. So pretty much as of now we’re not really boyfriend and girlfriend or anything like that, but she said we would definitely get back together after her whole family situation is over. She said it may be 2 or 3 months before the whole thing calms down.
We get along so well too. We’ve never really had any type of fight (just like small disagreements). I love her so much and I know she loves me. So the problem is how can I be SURE we will get back together after her whole family situation calms down?
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| Posted: Feb 01, 2008 9:45 a.m. - Subject: |
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You can’t, time is the key here
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| Posted: Feb 01, 2008 9:48 a.m. - Subject: |
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You can’t, you say you love her, and that in itself is something good enough to wait 2-3 months over, if you believe her, wait for sure.
Did you she say you guys can still be friends, chill/talk on the phone etc?
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| Posted: Feb 01, 2008 10:47 a.m. - Subject: |
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Quote: Did you she say you guys can still be friends, chill/talk on the phone etc?
Yea we can still hang out and talk on the phone and stuff. That’s how we can still stay close without really going out. I just wasn’t sure if that could be possible with the whole situation and stuff
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| Posted: Feb 01, 2008 10:57 a.m. - Subject: |
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This is life, just enjoy as it happens, you’ll find out eventually if it’ll be worth it to wait, and if it isn’t that’s 7 months of good memories, better than being alone for that period of time.
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| Posted: Feb 01, 2008 4:55 p.m. - Subject: |
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Just keep in touch saying how you care a love her. Call or e-mail. If you lose touch with her then it wasn’t meant to be. Such is life.
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| Posted: Feb 01, 2008 9:04 p.m. - Subject: |
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if she means that much to you then do everything you can to matain contact while giving her the space she needs. if all is well then you’ll both be stronger for it
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| Posted: Feb 01, 2008 9:51 p.m. - Subject: |
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I find it odd that she would want to be alone at a time like this.
You would think if she loved you and was having a difficult time with her family stuff that she would want someone to love and hold her or whatever to help her get through it.
odd...
i dont see how HAVING a bf would make things harder. Unless she thinks youll have certain expectations of her. If thats the case you should probably let her know that you wont and that you can still be a couple.
idk i just find that weird.
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| Posted: Feb 02, 2008 10:50 a.m. - Subject: |
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it is weird unless she thinks that being in a relationship will bring more stress to hr that she can’t deal with
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| Posted: Feb 02, 2008 9:45 p.m. - Subject: |
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Thats exactly what she means GMT. And Garg, thats how I felt when she first told me, then she explained it to me and it all made sense
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| Posted: Feb 08, 2008 6:23 p.m. - Subject: |
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Just be there for her. Be there so she knows someone loves her. She’ll probably need some sort of support. And if you continue talking to her and taking care of her, then she will see how much she really means to you. Therefore all though she wants to take a break right now, just make sure you are there for her.
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